✨when the belly ache spoke ✨
Not All Bullies Are Bad Kids — Sometimes They’re Hurting Kids
Liam had always been the kid who bounced out of bed like school was a theme park. But one Tuesday in October, his mom, Marissa, noticed something… off.
He was quiet. Slow-moving. And holding his stomach like it contained all the world’s problems.
“Buddy, you okay?” she asked gently.
He shrugged, eyes fixed on the floor. “My belly hurts.”
But the next day, the belly hurt again. And the day after that. And suddenly the boy who used to sprint to the door with his backpack ready was dragging his feet like he had cement blocks tied to his ankles.
Marissa’s worry radar — already powerful enough to pick up trouble from four galaxies away — started blaring.
That night, she sat beside him on the edge of the bed.
“You used to love school,” she said softly. “Can you tell me what’s going on?”
Liam hesitated, twisting the blanket between his fingers.
“It’s the twins,” he finally whispered. “They’re… mean now. I don’t know why. They make fun of me, and they push me sometimes.”
Marissa felt her heart knock around in her chest — not in anger, but in fear, confusion, and that deep mama-bear ache that hits when your child is hurting. She knew those boys. Their mom, Jen, lived just down the street. Their families had shared driveway chats, Halloween candy swaps, and enough neighborly smiles to know this didn’t add up.
So she did the thing many parents wish they could do but are often too scared to:
She made a phone call.
“Hey Jen… I just wanted to check in,” she began carefully. “Liam mentioned the boys have been hard on him lately. I thought you’d want to know.”
There was a pause — long enough for Marissa to wonder if she’d made a mistake.
Then Jen exhaled, her voice cracking open.
“Oh Marissa… thank you for telling me. We’ve been going through a really hard time at home. The boys… they’re taking it harder than we thought. I’m so sorry. We’ll get them the support they need.”
It wasn’t defensive.
It wasn’t angry.
It was relief.
It was gratitude.
It was two mothers choosing compassion over combat.
And life moved on — kids grew taller, backpacks got heavier, and the boys drifted into older grades where everything seemed bigger and yet somehow easier.
A year later, Liam came running home, grinning so wide his dimples nearly touched his ears.
“Mom! You won’t believe it! One of the twins came up to me today. He said thank you… for telling you what happened last year. He said things got better for them at home because of it. And he apologized!”
Marissa’s throat tightened, the good kind of tight.
“What did you say?” she asked.
“I told him we’re good,” Liam said simply. “He wants to hang out after school. We’re kinda… best friends now.”
And that was that — two boys who once stood on opposite ends of hurt now standing side by side, all because one mom asked, “Hey, what’s going on?” and another mom said, “Thank you for telling me.”
The Heart of the Story (without shouting it from the rooftops)
This is what people often forget:
Bullying isn’t always born from bad parenting.
Sometimes it comes from stress, heartbreak, or a home stretched too thin.Kids aren’t villains.
They’re mirrors — reflecting what they see, feel, and absorb.Violence isn’t the answer.
Compassion, connection, and honest conversations can change everything.
Two moms chose communication instead of confrontation.
Two boys chose healing instead of hiding.
And a situation that could’ve exploded… simply softened.
This is the “other side” of bullying — the side where understanding wins, and families get stronger instead of pulled apart.
Key Take Aways for Parents and teachers
1. Behaviour is Communication
Kids often “act out” when they’re overwhelmed or hurting. Bullying can be a sign that a child needs support, not punishment.
2. Compassion Opens Doors
A calm, honest conversation between adults can prevent issues from escalating — and can even strengthen community relationships.
3. Look for the Subtle Signs
Stomach aches
Avoiding school
Changes in mood
Withdrawal
— these are often the first whispers of something deeper.
4. Don’t Assume the Worst About the Other Parent
Most parents are doing their absolute best. Many are dealing with hidden stressors. Approaching with empathy instead of accusation changes the outcome.
5. Kids Can Heal — Fast
With support, apologies, and understanding, children can rebuild friendships and learn lifelong emotional skills.
6. Speak Up Early
Saying something sooner rather than later often prevents long-term harm — for all children involved.